What I decided....

Ok, I know all of you have been waiting with bated breath to find out what I decided re: the whole Todd thing. And first and foremost I want to thank all of my friends (both online and off) for the advice you gave me. I decided to go with my heart on this one and give him a second chance. However, he is on probation for the moment. He still wants me to go to VA in March, but after thinking about it, I decided that maybe waiting on that would be a better idea as well. I am throwing around the idea of moving back to NY for a few months and getting some bills paid off. I can live with my Dad fairly cheaply and after a few months maybe, then I will move there. March is now only 4 months away, and I'm thinking just based on past history, that's going to be too much too soon for him. I don't want him to get overwhelmed again and run. Although he does know that if he does it again, there is no taking him back. So anyway, that is the skinny on what is going on. Again, thank you for all of your support and advice. It really is appreciated.