Sex Symbol??

Why is it that whenever you go to any dating web site, or use any form on Instant Messaging, the men out there instantly assume you are a cyber slut? I am honestly just looking to meet a nice guy that I can eventually settle down with and have a family. No, I do not have a webcam, no I don't want to see your cock, and no I am not going to send you pictures of my boobs, clit, ass......whatever!!!!! I mean seriously....are there any guys out there that aren't perverts? Am I asking for too much? Or am I just asking for it by putting myself out there in the hopes that some nice guy is going to find me and sweep me off my feet?